category imposed on human experience, but a fluid one whose meaning emerges in specific social contexts as it is created and recreated through human actions" (p. 317). West and Zimmerman's (1987) concept of "doing gender" captures the interactional nature of constructing gender. These theorists asserted that gender is not an isolated characteristic of individuals, but rather is a social enterprise becoming both "an outcome of and rationale for various social arrangements" (p. 126). They noted the act of "doing gender" requires an understanding of what constitutes gender-appropriate behavior, which varies across time and context. Despite the fact that individuals must often purposefully mold their behaviors to be deemed gender-appropriate, "doing gender" creates an illusion that gender differences are natural and inherent. As such, "doing gender" allows imbalanced societal patterns and institutions to appear as if they are only reflecting the natural and essential differences between the sexes. West and Zimmerman (1987) contended gender done "appropriately" legitimizes these societal patterns and institutions, whereas gender done "inappropriately" calls into question the individual, not the institution. Although this concept of "doing gender" provides a helpful understanding of how individuals actively create gendered behavior, the framework can over-focus on the individual's relationship with society or culture while not focusing enough on the influence of personal relationships (Fox, 2001). Individuals do not simply "do gender." They "do gender" in various forms and have varying responses to its practice. They also "do gender" in the context of relationships. Significant others play a particularly important role in this process because they may support a person's way of "doing gender" or argue against it. Significant others may persuade or coerce a person into a different