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Right man for her


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perhaps if more parents
stressed the need to respect
women from an early age,
then the cycle would stop. At
times this lack of respect
stems from the man's own low
self esteem. So, to big up him-
self, he tears down women.
 The right man has man-


ners. Now I know that many
nowadays youth have no idea
what I'm talking about, but
good manners goes such a far
way and is so sought after by
women. All the ladies who
I've spoken to have expressed
this, how it's so refreshing
when a man takes them out
and displays good manners.
He opens the car door, holds


the door open for her when
entering a building, pulls out
her chair, offers her food and
drink, generally makes her
feel comfortable and secure.
 "Those are the qualities
that I look for in a man,
believe it or not, good man-
ners," this lady told me.
 Some may not know the
term. but know when a man


shows it to them. "Him treat
me right, mek me feel good,
me check fi him." And that's
another thing, a good man
takes out his lady, and it does-
n't have to be anywhere fancy
either, but most women love
to dress up and go out once in
a while. That's why movies are
still so popular, even though
we have cable and satellite


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dish. Women still love to dress
up and go out, and the right
man recognizes this. And I
don't mean taking out a new
woman just to impress her
either, but taking out your
wife or long time woman.
 The right man has eyes
only for his woman. Okay,
let's get realistic and rephrase
that. The right man has eyes
only for his woman when he's
around her. She must feel spe-
cial, he can't be with her yet
ogles other women. As long as
he's with her, she must be the
one. Which leads naturally
into the next prerequisite of
the right man, fidelity. The
right man must deal with only
his woman and nobody else.
Now I know that's a tall order,
but it's what women want in
the right man. "I want my
man to only be with me alone,
I don't want to share him with
any other woman," so many
ladies have told me.
 Others qualified it by say-
ing, "As long as him don't
dash it in my face and disre-
spect me and have woman
calling me and tracing me off,
I won't mind, although I
would rather he didn't, but
man is man I suppose."
 The right man commits,
no stringing along business,
but really commits. Oh, the
right man is so hard to find.

HIT AND MISS
 Women are forever seek-
ing the right man, this elusive
being that somehow keeps
slipping from their grasp.
Some women meet the right
men who eventually turn out
to be wrong, while others just
can't seem to meet even a hint
of a right man.
 Others caught the right
man but couldn't hold on to
him, as their jealousy and
insecurity drove him away.
Still, there are others who will
never stop looking for the
right man, the man who will
fulfill all their needs, their
desires, their wants, their obli-
gations. "I won't settle for any
and anybody, I want the right
man for myself." "Why can't I
find the right man, either
they're married, gay, too
young, too old, worthless,
thieves, liars or unemployed."
 But still, so many women
find men but also find faults in
all of them, so they are forev-
er seeking this elusive impos-
sible person and end up alone.
That seems to be the fate of
many women who are seeking
the right man. And anyway,
are you the right woman for
the right man?

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March 2007