Visiting a then, carefully, the topic can be turned to how this problem might be solved by having a few extra bags of maize for sale-if he follows F arm your post-harvest recommendations. PRACTISING SKILLS Before you leave a farmer's compound, make sure he understands what you have been discussing and demonstrating. The best way to be sure-if the opportunity is there-is to see how he himself carries out a task. If the farmer does not do it correctly, then you have not communicated. A key quality is patience-being prepared to repeat a demon- stration and keeping calm if the farmer seems slow at picking things up. But you may well find that if you encourage a farmer to express his own views, if you observe what he is doing and explore his reasons, you will learn some very useful information yourself. And if a farmer disagrees with what you are saying, try not to challenge him, but take the chance of exploring why he thinks the way he does. He may have very good reasons for doing things his way. For example, he may have lost his trust because of a previous piece ofbad advice. Or, from experience, he may have a much better understanding of what can be achieved with his particular soils and conditions. What follows are two contrasting scenarios. One of them is much more productive than the other. They illustrate how important it is to choose the appropriate line of communication if we wish commu- nication to proceed harmoniously and purposefully: First Scenario Farmer: "No, I'm not interested in growing hybrid maize. It's not suitable for this locality." EW: "But it will give you a much greater yield. You will be making a big mistake if you don't." (Directing line) Silence. End of conversation on the topic. Second Scenario Farmer: "No, I'm not interested in growing hybrid maize. It's not suitable for this locality." EW: "I'm interested in your views on this. Tell me why you think this way." (Computer line) Chapter 6