Enhancing Buyer / Seller Relationships in the Classroom by Mark A. Wade "Students learn what they care about and remember what they understand." The Essence of Good Teaching (p. 51) "To be successful, a salesperson must be able to find and address the dominant buying motive of each client " Relationship Selling (p. 65) Introduction Today's consumers do not want to be sold; they want to be provided with solutions to problems (Webster). This requires a change from the traditional product oriented sales approach to a partner driven, solution driven relationship. According to Cathcart (p. 1), "Relationship Selling is focused on building a good relationship with someone and providing a valuable service through that relationship." Salespeople have rediscovered the importance of listening to customers, and quickly learn that by listening they can determine customer needs (Wilson). Mark A. Wade is an Assistant Professor of Food and Resource Economics, College of Agricultural and Life Sciences, Institute of Food and Agricultural Sciences, University of Florida, Fort Pierce, Florida.