Friday, March 2M 986 / Tha Jewish Floridi of Palm Beach County Page 3 Milton Kurland Defines Mitzvah Therapy' for Chaplain Meeting The meeting room at Jewish I Federation of Palm Beach County was filled to over- flowing as Milton Kurland, MSW, presented an interesting concept of Chaplain Aide .work, "Mitzvah Therapy," at the third seminar meeting of the Jewish Federation Chaplain Aide- Program. Confessing that he picked up the term "Mitzvah Therapy" at a lecture by Sol Gordon, Kurland described the benefits derived by Chaplain Aides as I they perform their good deeds I at homes for the elderly and at I hospitals. Quoting from Pirke Abot, [wisdom of the Fathers, the [Daily Prayer Book and the Torah, Kurland established [the obligation of performing I mitzvot even when we are not I in a loving mood. "We learn I to love those whom we help," Jhe said. He made the analogy [between the palindromic [Hebrew word "Natan" to [give, which is the same read [forward or backward, to make [ihc point that when you give [you also receive in the same [measure. After defining the shades of mitzvot commandment, good deed, act of charity and giving the Greek origin of therapy which relates to philanthropy love of mankind, Kurland listed the specifics of Mitzvah Therapy. He asked that the Chaplain Aides analyze their feelings as they wheel residents around a nursing home. He suggested that: 1- "You will experience feelings of ego satisfaction . .feel needed." 2- "By showing the Jewish nursing home residents that they are not forgotten that the Jewish community cares, the Aide is giving them 'Kavod,' honor and respect the 'Kavod* is returned to the Chaplain Aide in the same measure." 3- "By performing the "Mitzvah," the Aide is contributing to the Divine Plan of Creation." 4- "When the 'Mitzvah' is performed, the Aide is setting an example for his children, grandchildren, and all mankind that will lead to a better world." 5- "We listen to the Rabbis who say that by performing Mitzvot we can gather the fruit in this world and still have the principal remain in the world to come." Kurland, who has spent 47 vears in social work, was inspired by gemulet chesed (performing kind deeds) displayed by his grandmother who.^pn Friday mornings, on 110th Street in New York City, distributed Shabbat candles and Challah to the poor. His father's work for the Hebrew Free Loan Society in which young Milton was occasionally called upon to help, was also an inspiration. Kurland has worked as a clinician and instructor, having taught at Columbia University, City University of New York, Hunter College, Lehman College and Adelphi University. He was also senior case supervisor for New York City Department of Social Services and Director of Social Services at Four Winds Hospital in Katona, New York. He is now adjunct instructor in Continuing Education at Palm Beach Junior College and has his own private practice. Kurland holds degrees in social work, education and gerontology. Milton and his wife Ruth are members of the Chaplain Aide Program. They conduct Sabbath services at Waterford Nursing Home and Jupiter Convalescent Center. They are members of Temple Beth David, located in North Palm Beach where they reside. Milton serves on the ritual committee, teaches adult education classes and is part time Bal Koreh, reader of the Torah. The Kurlands also live in Somers, New York, where they are active in temple af- fairs. Persons interested in joining the Chaplain Aide Program for 'friendly visiting' at nursing homes, retirement centers and hospitals or to Milton Kurland assist at worship services, may call the office of the Jewish Federation Chaplain, Rabbi Alan R. Sherman, 655-7706. Program For Interfaith Couples Offered nth American and Israeli Jewish lead Join To Re-Open CJF Office In Israel JERUSALEM Prominent North American |and Israeli leaders were in attendance as the Council of [Jewish Federations recently re- opened its Israel office. CJF President Shoshana S. tardin of Baltimore hosted phe ceremonies which re- established the CJF office breviously operative from 11968-72. "Re-opening of the CJF office in Israel will enhance [he relationship between North American Jewish Federations and Israel and will plfill specific program /unctions for CJF member federations," Mrs. Cardin Remarked. The goal of the office is to keep key Israelis more in- iormed and aware of the agenda, services, programs and issues of the North American Jewish Federation movement, thus improving the effectiveness of dialogue and cooperation between the two communities, she added. Four former presdients of the CJF also participated in the official dedication of the office Max M. Fisher of Detroit, Jerold C. Hoffberger of Baltimore, Morton L. Mandel of Cleveland and Raymond Epstein of Chicago. Martin S. Kraar, former executive vice president of the St. Louis Federation, is serving as director of the CJF Israel office located at 11 Pinsker Street in Jerusalem. The Council of Jewish Federations is the association of 200 Federations, Welfare Funds and Community Councils which serve nearly 800 communities embracing a Jewish population of more than 5.7 million in the U.S. and Canada. Established in 1932, the Council serves as a national instrument to strengthen the work and the impact of Jewish Federations through leadership in developing programs to meet changing needs in the Jewish com- munity; the exchange of successful experiences to assure the most effective community service; establishing guidelines for fund raising and operation, and through joint national planning and action on common purposes dealing with local, regional and in- ternational needs. The Southeast Council of the Union of American Hebrew Congregations (Reform) is again sponsoring an eight-week program designed for unaffiliated inter tail h couples, meaning one who is Jewish and one who is not. The seminar is being offered at Temple Sinai in Delray Beach Thursday evenings, April 25 through June 13 from 7:30 to 10 p.m. The cost is $50 per couple and advance registration is required. The program deals with such issues as tensions within the extended family, holiday celebrations, and raising the child when the parents are of different religious backgrounds. The group is designed to provide a supportive atmosphere and enable the participants to share with others in Tike circumstances issues surrounding the blending of their two lives and encourage dialogue between partners concerning issues of Jewish life in an attempt to clarify their lives together. Anyone desiring more information about this in- terfaith couples seminar can contact Linda Spitzer, Outreach Coordinator, UAH- C Office in Miami. The mailing address for ap- plications is 3785 NW 82 Ave. Suite 210, Miami, Fla. 33166. 2nd-Staqe Withdrawal Speeds Up THE JOSEPH L. MORSE GERIATRIC CENTER of the Jewish Home for the Aged of Palm Beach County TEL AVIV (JTA) The second stage of the Israel Defense Force's withdrawal from south Lebanon has been speeded up as four more attacks were reported on IDF units late last week. There were no casualties. MILITARY SOURCES said non-operational equipment is being moved back from the eastern sector of the front, facing Syrian forces, at an accelerated pace. Convoys of heavy trucks are moving in seemingly endless procession along me roads, hauling prefabricated buildings, barbed wire and other non-combat material back to Israel. A military spokesman said a rocket-propelled grenade and automatic fire was aimed at an Israel tank near Adweis village, and an army post near Nabatiyacame under automatic fire. A Katyusha rocket was fired at an IDF unit near Shabricha village, and an IDF position near Bidyas was attacked with RPGs. 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